I never feel like I am pushing anyone to book a show... 
      my dates are valuable if I give you one you must be special... that is 
      what is in my head....
      Now the balloon game... as guest arrive they get the 
      balloon... as I hand it to them I say... " this is yours for the evening 
      after all what's a party with out balloons and presents. Hang on to it and 
      don't trade it away you may be holding the special balloon.... It's yours" 
      and if she asks any questions re: what's inside... I just give a very 
      sneaky look and a smile!
      When I open the show I casually remind them to hang onto 
      their balloons, that we will get to them later in the show...
      For the entire evening the women "owns" the balloon and 
      the gift inside. You will see them shaking the balloon and see the 
      curiosity in her eyes. When doing the door prize slip and I get to #3 I 
      say.... "Ok ladies you all have your balloons, and by now you have figured 
      out that there is a special gift inside from me! If you decide to book a 
      show this evening the gift is yours and you may pop your balloon to 
      discover what you have won, otherwise you must return the balloon to me. 
      If three of you pop your balloon then the hostess get to pop hers as well"
      The wording here is key! There is not a person in that 
      room who is not dying to know what her prize is... and not a single one 
      who is thrilled to give you HER balloon back. And your hostess will also 
      want to pop hers to see what HER MYSTERY prize is, so she will work to get 
      other to pop theirs. They must bring their Balloon to me with their order 
      and pop the balloon with me.
      It works!
      Inside the balloons are various things, lotion bar, bath 
      bead, candles, shower gel.. you decide how much you are willing to spend 
      to "buy" a show... and then select items from catalog using that figure as 
      a base...
      